Some children with learning and concern may have trouble in the social rules and equipment of the playground. The following are the common amusement parks and how to help your children avoid these problems.
1. being bullied or bullied
Introverted and emaciated children may become the targets of other children's bullying. Bullying is different from ridicule, which is very damaging to children, and often escalated with time's decommissioning. Bullying includes insults, threats, exclusion, isolation, or even physical violence. Please be alert to the bullying in the playground and let the playground be filled with laughter and laughter.
How to help: take the initiative to explain to bully children what bullying is, make sure that children can understand that if something like this happens, they can come to you. If he feels the playground is full of danger, it is not safe, so take the initiative to bring the child home, so as not to leave mental shadow.
2. collide with other children
Sometimes some children lack control and impulsiveness, and they may hurt other children inadvertently between running, climbing, and jumping. Because the child is too young, he does not know that it is not allowed. It's not fair for those children who have been injured.
How to help: the playground must make corresponding basic rules: for example, what to do and what not to do, in order to let the children know in advance the consequences, encourage him to communicate with words instead of her body, to remind the child's rude is wrong, tell him if he wants to play video, said: "excuse me, can I play electric?", so that children can learn civilized comity.
The winner of the 3. game
Emotional control is not a simple thing, especially for a lot of things without children, they tend to win or lose more important. We win the happy, also, they would be very unhappy at losing the game, and then lead to another child mood worse, losing recreational atmosphere.
How to help: if your child is spending for other children are not happy, they won't play with him, to remind the child: the playground just won the game, feeling good of course, there is never negative wins, let others feel bad. So he often encourage the opponent: "you playing well! ";
4. of some devices are not able to play.
For children with some motor skills problems, such as sports disabilities, disabilities, etc., it may be very difficult to use playground equipment, climb up ladder, rotate compass or even play with toys, all of which need to coordinate many different body movements.
How to provide help: when playground is not many, and no children compete for equipment, you can help your child to decompose equipment steps and practice, so that he can do things he likes. Children can also use the equipment flexibly at the beginning of the week.
5. do not want to play with other children
In the playground, you can exercise social skills, including sharing and communicating with other children. When other children invite your children to play together, he may not understand, which may make friendship difficult.
How to help: let your child practice talking to other children, such as "Hi, I'm a, what is your name", "do you want to go on the dodgems and me."
6. a sense of fear of equipment
For some children, the naughty castle is not so happy. Because he sees some big devices like devil's slide, trampoline and so on. They will feel fear and fear that they will hurt themselves, so they will not use these devices.
How to help: tell your children that there are enough protective measures in playgrounds, and emphasize that you will always be there for him to overcome his fears and overcome everything. Parents also need to pay attention to their children's safety at any time. After all, there are too many used in the playground.
